by emilyaarons | Nov 27, 2020 | Blog, News and Events
Spoiler Alert!
The purpose of this blog is to simply point out how when you’re in ALIGNMENT with your life’s purpose and passions, the judgment of others doesn’t even matter.
It’s MY purpose is to shine my light so that others can shine theirs too. Simply put: I help you so you can help others!
In order to help others, I have to be massively VISIBLE.
Being massively visible means I attract some occasional unwanted attention!
TRIGGER WARNING: I invite YOU to consider your own fears of visibility, being judged for who you are, fears of being an imposter, or being the “weirdo” in the room…
A PERSONAL TRUE STORY: Just last week, a troll on the internet went out of their way to rip me a new one. Here’s what happened and how I handled it…and how YOU can face your fears of judgment too!
Here’s some of what they said:
“You’re not psychic”
“You’re full of shit”
“You give horrible advice”
“What you is unethical”
“All you care about are followers”
“You should quit your job to be at home with your children”
“Your work is bullshit”
“You only care about putting yourself first”
So, maybe you’re wondering why on earth would someone say such things?…
Keep reading…
Truth be told…If this conversation happened when I was newly visible online and still a bit insecure in my work, these would have BROKEN ME into a puddle, I would have strongly considered quitting, I would have definitely lost sleep over it…
HOWEVER, when I heard those words last week I felt…N O T H I N G.
In the conversation, I didn’t get defensive.
I didn’t react.
I didn’t get angry.
I didn’t throw insults back…
I listened and occasionally said “that’s really interesting feedback, tell me more about that” or “well this certainly says a lot about you”…
(Feel free to borrow those if you need to!)
But here’s WHY I felt nothing…
It’s because NONE of those words are true AND I’ve healed those old wounds of needing to be liked by everyone!
The TRUTH is that the work I do is helping thousands of people and there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t see that karma return in POSITIVE ways.
It’s kind of like someone making fun of me for being too tall…I’m 5’2″ so that’s just silly nonsense…same reaction with this.
So here’s the part I didn’t tell you…
That “troll on the internet” who said all of those things was actually a close family member. We were simply chatting about plans for Thanksgiving when he unloaded…
What I said to him was that while I appreciate his honest feedback that he clearly had been holding back for years.
I’m in a place in my life where I have zero tolerance for people in my life who don’t love, honor and appreciate me for ME.
I realize to some people reading this you may have a judgment about me or him, but consider this…
The reason why HE said all of those things means nothing about me and EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM.
Did he say it to hurt me? No.
But as we know, hurt people hurt people…he’s clearly hurting in some way, and that’s HIS work to do.
I forgive him and release him from my life right now. Maybe one day that will change but for now, I’m not available.
And for all you scrollers…the moral of my story is…
When you align yourself to your true calling and life purpose, and stay TRUE to your divine alignment, IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS!!
And always remember what Michelle Obama said: “When they go low, we go high.”
If you’re getting the side-eye from any friends, family, or co-workers please trust, they are NOT your people.
“True belonging doesn’t require that we change who we are, it requires that we BE who we are.” ~Brene Brown
If you’re CRAVING a like-minded community that’s into spiritual stuff, shows up vulnerably, and wants to celebrate each other growing their business, check out the Align & Activate Mastermind.
by emilyaarons | Oct 23, 2020 | Blog, News and Events
I know how important MONEY is in people’s life.
I’d love to help you unlock your intuition and use it as a tool to EXPLODE your business and magnetize your ideal soulmate clients, but let’s take this one step at a time…
Q: How does using intuition grow my business?
A: Just for a moment consider the fact that some of the world’s most successful business owners (Oprah, Elon Musk, Arianna Huffington, and Ray Dalio to name a few) all attribute their success to using meditation and trusting their INTUITION!
ASK YOURSELF: What would be possible if I could 100% trust my inner compass?
Here’s their secret…
Even as little as ONE MINUTE of deep breathing can take a bad day and make it good…Why?
Because it moves your ATTENTION. And we all know we ARE where our attention IS.
Meaning, if you’re feeling overwhelmed by your day, your business (or lack thereof) and you keep spiraling, your day and your energy spirals too.
AND…The more frequently you connect, the easier it becomes to receive messages, PLUS your energy vibration becomes YUMMY!! #yourvibeattractsyourtribe
Q: “My problem is I don’t have enough TIME to meditate”
My best advice that I share with students from Mastery & Ascension is start with ONE MINUTE a day and keep track.
In fact, inside Mastery & Ascension, every member gets a tracker to make tracking easy but if you aren’t a member yet, you can use a notebook or a calendar. They even have some apps to help you track habits as well.
Commit to creating the space to complete a one-minute meditation daily and in time increase your time, keep track of not only your meditations but your successes AND CELEBRATE!
by emilyaarons | Apr 28, 2020 | Podcast
Episode 153
In this episode, I will answer a big question many people have. Most of the time, they are not even sure how to ask this question and the question goes something like this: can you be religious and spiritual at the same time?
I know there’s a lot of controversy around this topic and that’s precisely why I thought I would record an episode about this topic.
If you have been struggling with the concept of a religious background because some people may think that religion may not go well with using cards, crystals, or meditation, then I want you to know, I’ve recorded this episode for you.
Highlights you won’t want to miss:
- Reasons why you can be both religious and spiritual at the same time and the benefits of being both.
- Why learning how to stay open and balancing religion and spirituality may open up new areas of light in your life.
- Why praying is asking and meditation is listening and why they go hand in hand.
- How the act of sitting in meditation and closing your eyes allows you to receive.
- Why for the majority of us, there is some kind of force that’s greater than us.
- Understanding that you can have faith without religion.
- Why we can feel the energy of people coming together.
- How opening up your spirituality can unlock your faith.
- Why it’s possible to have faith even if you are not religious.
Shareable Quotes:
- “I’ve basically had the religious smorgasbord. I had a little bit of everything, but not a lot of one thing.” – Emily Aarons
- “Prayer is asking. Meditation is listening.” – Emily Aarons
- “There is a greater power. There is some kind of force that’s greater than us.” – Emily Aarons
- “You can have faith without religion.” – Emily Aarons
Resources to Take You Deeper:
> > THANKS FOR LISTENING! GET MY FREE ABUNDANCE MEDITATION HERE!
Ready to dive deeper? Join the Mastery & Ascension membership to learn the spiritual tools to break through your blocks, align with your highest self, and gain clarity to become FULLY Aligned & Unstoppable! Simply CLICK HERE to join!
by emilyaarons | Apr 21, 2020 | Podcast
Episode 151
In this episode, I will answer one of the most common questions I get asked: How to tell the difference between ego and intuition?
Many people think intuition is a gift that you are either born with it or not and today I will share how I think that’s not true.
I have discovered that there are many ways that we block ourselves from making money and from showing up as our best self and my purpose today is to show you that there is another way to expand into personal and business growth when you to learn tap into your intuition.
Learning how to tell the difference between ego and intuition is easily one of the most important skills you can develop. In fact, it can be the key to unlock your business growth.
Highlights you won’t want to miss:
- How to use the power of your intuition to expand and become your best version of yourself.
- Why intuition is not a gift, but something you can learn and acquire.
- Why your intuition gets stronger the more you listen to it.
- How you can use your intuition to run and grow your business.
- How can you tell the difference between ego and intuition and how to know which one is talking to you.
- Why 95% of the time you are listening to your ego.
- The importance of understanding that your ego is usually the one driving the bus.
- How intuition sounds more like a whisper.
- Why when you start to listen to your intuition and do things you never did before, something starts to shift.
- Why listening to your intuition allows you to get into alignment, attract more clients and grow your business.
Shareable Quotes:
- “Many people think intuition is a gift, which I just think is such B.S.” – Emily Aarons
- “Your intuition. It starts off as a whisper and the whisper is in your own voice.” – Emily Aarons
- “Your ego actually isn’t a bad guy. It’s an asshole, but it’s not a bad guy.” – Emily Aarons
Resources to Take You Deeper:
> > THANKS FOR LISTENING! GET MY FREE ABUNDANCE MEDITATION HERE!
Ready to dive deeper? Join the Mastery & Ascension membership to learn the spiritual tools to break through your blocks, align with your highest self, and gain clarity to become FULLY Aligned & Unstoppable! Simply CLICK HERE to join!
by emilyaarons | Feb 18, 2020 | Podcast
Episode 126
Today I am honored to speak to Andréa Michel about 4 steps to find your purpose even if you feel you are at a crossroads in your life.
Andréa is an intuitive transformational coach, certified life coach, speaker and retired corporate controller (accountant). She helps women leaders discover their purpose and passion, find “balance”, reconnect with and find their identities so that they can create more happiness, fall in love with themselves, make more money and live an abundant life.
In her 15 plus years of working with women and doing her own work (going into the shadow), she’s learned that guilt is one of those addictive emotions. In fact, it’s so addictive that many women don’t even know they are operating from a place of guilt and/or shame. Her goal is to revolutionize the way women THINK about their FEELINGS!
She is also the host of the Finding Bliss podcast, creator of 90 Days to Find Your Bliss group coaching program, a wife of 12 years, mom to the most amazing children she could have asked for, and a marathon veteran.
In this episode, we dive deep into the 4 steps to find your purpose framework. This is an episode you will not want to miss if you’ve ever wondered what your purpose is.
Make sure you grab the PDF download with Andrea’s 4-Step Process and action steps!
Highlights you won’t want to miss:
- The importance of understanding how you are responsible for your life and results and key questions you can start to ask yourself.
- Why, when Andréa was 20 years old, she decided to give her life to Christ.
- From victim to victor, how Andréa started to see her life from a completely different perspective.
- Why you are the creator of your own reality.
- Why everything changes the moment you start to look at your life through the lens of love.
- Why you will always find yourself at a crossroads when it’s time for us to up-level.
- Why you need to allow fear and sit with it in order to overcome it.
- Why it takes courage to live your purpose.
- Why fear is part of the process and the only way to move past the fear is to go within.
- The four-step process that Andréa uses to help people find their purpose and their bliss: shift, release, reinvent, maintain.
- Why you need to learn how to shift your mindset.
- Why you need to be willing to release your limiting beliefs.
- The power of understanding that you get to reinvent who you want to become.
- Why it’s important for you to live your life in alignment with your new identity.
Shareable Quotes:
- “The thing about life is that we will always find ourselves at a crossroads when it’s time for us to up-level when it’s time for us to do something powerful when it is time for us to do something great. There will always be a crossroad.” – Andréa Michel
- “So what’s interesting about where I am today is that it looks completely different than where I thought I would be.” – Andréa Michel
- “If you’re a mother, you’re a business owner. You’re you. You are number one. Be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Emily Aarons
- “Let fear come. We know what we resist persists, so instead of fighting fear like some crazy person, let all the fear come. Bring it on.” -Emily Aarons
Resources to Take You Deeper:
> > THANKS FOR LISTENING! GET MY FREE ABUNDANCE MEDITATION HERE!
Ready to dive deeper? Join the Mastery & Ascension membership to learn the spiritual tools to break through your blocks, align with your highest self, and gain clarity to become FULLY Aligned & Unstoppable! Simply CLICK HERE to join!
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