Why You Should Stop Saying I Can’t Afford It

Why You Should Stop Saying I Can’t Afford It

Why You Should Stop Saying I Can’t Afford It

Today, we are talking about why you should stop saying: “I Can’t afford it”.

I used to say that constantly until I realized that this was the thing that was keeping me stuck.

This is what I want you to understand when you continue to make decisions based on your current circumstances, for example, I don’t have enough time, I don’t have enough money.

You repeat them.

You basically put yourself back on the hamster wheel.

In this episode, you will learn Why You Should Stop Saying: “I Can’t afford it” so that you can avoid this vicious cycle and finally start to live your best life.

Highlights you won’t want to miss:
  • Why You Should Stop Saying: “I Can’t afford it”.
  • Why, when you make decisions based on your current circumstances, you repeat them.x
  • How to take ownership of your money story so that you can live your best life.
  • The importance of learning how to use your feelings to make better decisions.
  • Understanding that there is always a way to make money when you are open to the possibilities.
  • Why if you want different results, you need to change your behavior and who you are being.
  • Why making money or not making money is a choice.
  • Why investing in yourself allows you to show up as your higher self.
Shareable Quotes:
  • “Triggers are your friends, they show you where the healing can be done. They show you where you need to look at so that you can fix the problem.” – Emily Aarons
  • “We have a choice to make money and a choice not to make money.” – Emily Aarons
  • “Abundance comes from inside. It doesn’t come from outside.” – Emily Aarons
Resources to take you deeper:

About Emily

Emily Aarons is a business alignment coach who helps entrepreneurs use their intuition to grow their business.

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Angels in Your Biz Weekly Forecast December 14

Angels in Your Biz Weekly Forecast December 14

Angels in Your Biz Weekly Forecast December 14

I’m really not surprised by this week’s forecast because it’s reminding you to narrow down on your efforts for the upcoming year so you’re less scattered. The full forecast gives you step by step instructions so make sure you check it out!

December 14 Energy Forecast:

33. Pivot: Tune into what FEELS good

Something feels off. You don’t need to throw away all of your work but I’d seriously consider shifting so you don’t feel like you’re “pushing” so hard. Your business doesn’t have to be a labor of love; it can be easy. Maybe it’s time to look at the story “I have to work hard to make money.” Did you catch yourself? This could be a lovely place to journal what FEELS good and what feels heavy in your work. Give yourself permission to let go of what doesn’t feel light and easy.

3. Crystal Clear Success: You can BE it

If you can see it, you can BE it. There is nothing you can not have. Release control of how things should be and allow the universe to orchestrate the most incredible life full of miracles. Make sure you give thanks and celebrate all the tiny micro-wins, as the universe is showing you that it’s all happening with little energetic breadcrumbs. Don’t take them for granted – it’s all happening! Take a look around and find evidence of it working!

7. Healing: Schedule healing work!

This is a hard stop, drop, and get some healing work done. I don’t care if it’s a visit to the sauna, a spa day, or an hour-long massage or energy healing session. Your system is overloaded and under loved. There’s something going on under the surface and your angels want you to be aware of it…and you can’t do that alone or by working harder. You must stop to listen to the call. If you continue to ignore it, the call will get louder, and you may not enjoy being laid up from work for a long stretch of time. Better take care of yourself now. Pay now or pay later! A small investment of a day off will pay off in droves…just you wait and see! There’s someone in heaven watching over you and they can hear your silent prayers. Think of this card as a gift to have someone take care of you.

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No more hiding my Jewish Ancestry!

No more hiding my Jewish Ancestry!

 

Let me tell you the story behind this rose quartz.

Back when I owned my first wellness center, my client Joanne and I would talk before or after her treatments. I knew she was a psychic/medium and that she was very active in the community and at her Unitarian church. I also knew she was Jewish.

One day I told her I was too and eventually she gave me this crystal. A gorgeous rose quartz with the Star of David engraved in gold. For the life of me, I can’t remember why she gave it to me. But for the last 16 years, it’s been stored deep inside my jewelry box, hidden.

 

Hiding my Jewish heritage always came naturally for me. My closest friends never knew because I specifically didn’t tell them. Why? I never logically thought about it, but rather I hid being a Jew INSTINCTIVELY.

 

Recently, I’ve been more interested in learning about my lineage. Turns out there’s a lot to be very proud of, including the fact I’m 85% Jewish. Technically, that makes me a super Jew! Some brag-worthy history includes early settlers to Tucson, AZ arriving in covered wagon, my GREAT grandmother graduated University of AZ in 1901! ?  They ran a men’s clothing store through the Great Depression and never lost it! My Jewish family is on both sides and is from Lithuania, Germany, Poland, and France. Of course; even revealing this truth I realize what a fucking privilege to be able to hide. Even if historically my family has been persecuted, how lucky am I to just not tell people if I choose.

Being targeted, hated, bullied, murdered, and abused because of the color of your skin is NOT something many people can hide.

I’ve come to a place in my life where the work I’m here to share with the world prohibits me from hiding. If you’ve been hiding your gifts and magic out of fear and please know you’ve found me… I am committed to keeping a SAFE space to share what might be considered “weird” or “different” and in my ever-growing community, we CELEBRATE those differences.

Black, white, brown, yellow, gay, straight, bi, trans, skinny, fat, tall, short…everyone BELONGS here.  Just. As. You. Are. No more hiding, trying to fit in, or playing small.

 

Love is love is love. Let’s spread it together.

If you are looking for a like minded community to be a part of and be accepted please join my FREE Facebook Community Aligned & Unstoppable we would love to welcome you home.

Why Business Coaches and eCourses Fail You

Why Business Coaches and eCourses Fail You

I’m pissed about something today and you might be too! Let me explain…

Recently, I was thinking about business coaches and their online courses. What’s crazy is something like 94% of students don’t complete their online courses – I wondered WHY???

My guides showed me a clock with all of its parts and that’s when it hit me!

What MOST online business coaches and course creators are giving you is a box full of clock parts (all the parts of a successful business) and an instruction booklet (their course) and expecting that you’ll be able to assemble a clock (just like theirs), based on their simple instructions.

At some point, very early on, a part of your soul goes, WTF?

Maybe you internalize it thinking something is wrong with YOU instead of the course.

THE PROBLEM, and this really fires me up, is that maybe THEY built a clock and made 6-figures (or whatever they’re telling you), and now you’re supposed to build a clock (like theirs) super fast and make loads of money like them!

GAH! No. NOOO!! STOP!!

Have you ever stopped to consider that’s THEIR life path, but what if YOUR life path ISN’T building a clock at all?

What if you’re here, in this lifetime, to build a damn rocket ship, or a telescope, or a flying electric car…you get me?

Someone else’s parts and instructions fail you every time because that’s THEIR life path…and you, my friend, are not on the same path.

YOU are not broken, their plan just isn’t YOURS…

Likely, that’s also why you’re always feeling so freaking OVERWHELMED by it!

And overwhelm kills forward action EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I honestly hope my point isn’t getting lost in metaphors so here it is more clearly:

You’ve been raised to follow instructions and raise your hand, seek help outside, and NOT to trust the wisdom from within…

But as a Business Coach for 4 years, I can tell you, to get transformative LASTING results – that model is going to fail you. Maybe not immediately, but when you are ready for that big leap in your business, it can’t come from WITHOUT.

You need to seek help from INSIDE!

It’s time to toss out those business models that promise you they have the answers FOR you, in favor of a ONE-SIZE-FITS-YOU program so that you can remember how to look inward for answers and guidance AND get real HUMAN support when you’re feeling a little lost on your path.

Sound good?

That’s exactly what I teach and preach because I, like you, followed someone else’s strategies and ideas until I couldn’t take the “failure” any longer…I threw out their model in favor of following MY inner guidance and so far so f’ing good!

I’ve learned a thing or two from both being a coach and a student and I want to give you some helpful hints to consider before you invest in that next program or coach.

Questions to Ask before you leap:

  • Are they giving you their formula or are they teaching tools to connect to your own authentic formula?
  • Is there a transformation involved in their program?
  • If you know people who have taken it, ask how they were before they took it and what happened after? (Make sure you’re not solely paying for networking because that might not be what you’re after).
  • Are there actionable steps that you can apply to your business NOW?
  • Is it a balance of “inner work” and business principles? (You want both!)
  • Does it fit your industry? Let’s face it. If you’re “woo” your “woo”. If you invest in a coach or program that doesn’t have inner growth included, your soul is going to feel it.

The key to investing in an effective Business Coach or eCourse is to make sure that you can apply it as you learn and build a strong foundation as you go – from the inside.

Most people don’t talk about this, but you need to build the foundation both inside with your beliefs about safety and success and THEN scale your business.

 

 

 

 

 

 

It explains why 70% of lottery winners go bankrupt! They didn’t learn how to earn the money and manage it as they grew so when things start to go wrong they can’t figure out how to fix it. They don’t have that skill set to fall back on.

If you don’t know how to go within and follow your inner guidance –well, there’s no shortage of examples of people hitting it big and then losing everything.

If you don’t have a solid foundation, it will crumble when your post goes viral or you finally have email subscribers signing up at 50 per day but no one buys anything or signs up for your services.

You never want to feel disillusioned by your hard work. Like you bought into a system that wasn’t designed for you and forgot to BE true to yourself.

“You can fail at something you don’t want, so you might as well take a chance doing what you love.” Jim Carrey

If you are looking for true transformation, a way to build a solid foundation and scale your business – all from learning to do it YOUR way so that you’ve grown into it and can duplicate your success as needed – I offer a Mastermind group that is like no other.

I remembered all the courses and coaches that had good intentions but sold me THEIR success formula and I’ve created something MORE.

It is called the Align and Activate Mastermind.

It only happens twice a year.

I take a small number of entrepreneurs on a 6-month journey with me to do this work on a very deep and very intimate level inside of the Align and Activate Mastermind.

It’s application only. It’s NOT a discount or free program. It IS life-changing.

I’m ONLY interested in women who are ready to commit to having a BREAKTHROUGH year because with commitment and my support – anything is possible!

So, if you’re ready to unlock your intuitive abilities and grow your business while marching to the beat of your OWN damn drum, you can apply to have a conversation with me to see if this Mastermind is right for you.

Want in? Apply to have a conversation about the Align and Activate Mastermind kicking off January 4th, 2021.

It’s time for a one-size-fits-YOU approach that leads to the breakthrough you’ve been praying for.

APPLY TODAY –  Align & Activate Mastermind.

If you are on the fence I have something for you too…LISTEN TODAY and enjoy my Opening to Unlimited Abundance Meditation so you can start attracting the abundance you desire with ease.

Money Blocks Aren’t What’s Stopping You From the 10k Months You Desire

Money Blocks Aren’t What’s Stopping You From the 10k Months You Desire

Money Blocks Aren’t What’s Stopping You From the 10k Months You Desire

As a Business Alignment Coach, I’ve seen a thing or two about money blocks and goal setting. The most common goal I hear from people in my Align and Activate Mastermind and in my membership group is that a majority of you want to make $10k in profit per month – but it keeps alluding you.

It’s a great goal but so many get stuck with what they THINK are money blocks.

But as I’m sitting here looking over applications for the mastermind, I’m seeing a pattern.

And for those of you who know me, whenever I see a pattern I can’t help but jump on Facebook or Instagram to share some information that I KNOW will help you.

This podcast was originally recorded as a Facebook Live but it was too juicy not to share.

It takes more than just clearing your money blocks to actually shift the core beliefs, the childhood trauma, all the stuff we’ve been going through to have that dramatic and drastic shift.

Take a listen and see if THIS is what is preventing you from reaching your 10k months and what you can do instead.

Highlights you won’t want to miss:
  • The stories we tell ourselves around financial abundance can keep us stuck!
  • Whatever the crazy big goal, it’s not only a money block that’s stopping you from achieving it.
  • The questions to ask yourself to figure out what’s underneath the money blocks.
  • There’s a knowing inside of you.
  • The key is NOT working harder.
  • The answer is NOT pricing yourself according to what your competitors are charging.
  • When you get triggered is where the healing begins (make sure to listen to this part!)
  • Imposter syndrome??‍♀️
  • Your container may be too small.
  • If you’re trying to do it alone, believing the same old stories that are keeping you broke and not looking at your old traumas – it’s probably not going to work.
  • Everyone is holding a container of who you are too.
Shareable Quotes:
  • “Is there a worth fairy? No! Worthiness comes from inside.” Emily Aarons
  • “You are the maker of the money. You decide when you want to make money.” Emily Aarons
  • “The more money I have, the more good I can do in the world.” Emily Aarons
  • “You need to start doing things differently if you want things to change.” Emily Aarons
  • “You are not separate from your business.” Emily Aarons
Resources to take you deeper:

About Emily

Emily Aarons is a business alignment coach who helps entrepreneurs use their intuition to grow their business.

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