Yesterday I was chatting with a new client and it sounded like she was hitting a wall of RESISTANCE…
Resistance can show up as many things: sickness, your back going out, anxiety, fear of lack, worry about spending money, etc…
I see this all the time BOTH internally (with myself as I grow) and externally through my clients…I’m excellent at helping others through it because there’s a giant pot of gold on the other side!!!
(Maybe not literally but there’s certainly more money!)
One thing she said to me while I was guiding her to go deeper to see where the belief about not having enough money started…
She told me “I dream all the time about hitting $20k months or more!!
So I said “close your eyes and ask: what’s stopping me from hitting it?” <<——You can play along too! REPLY let me know what came up!
As much as she wanted to DO THE WORK, her ego was being challenged big time!
She kindly said “I’ll have to meditate on it.”
Now, I’m a seasoned pro and I can spot an ego fighting back from miles away! I pushed her to close her eyes and ASK…
Suddenly it was abundantly clear!
She went on to say “because I’ve made bad decisions with money in the past…my dad made poor decisions…he told me no one would ever trust me…”
Inside I was like “YES! THIS IS THE WORK!!! You’re DOING IT!”
But as much as we identified the “block” and really the root, she wasn’t relieved, she seemed almost let down because this shit from her childhood was coming up again and she thought she “dealt with that already”!
We ALL go through this.
This woman is NOT alone in feeling this way, but it’s all part of ASCENSION.
When we’re committing to serving at a higher level, to raising our rates, to aspiring for more, for dreaming BIG, THIS SHIT WILL COME UP!
Think of it as a hurdle from the Universe…
You’re asking to make millions of dollars and to help heal the world, yet, you can’t seem to make progress…
WHY?
Likely because you’re letting your ego keep you small and safe.
When the hurdle shows up (aka resistance) for you to PROVE IT.
– Put your money where you mouth is…
– BECOME the person who is changing peoples lives…even if it feels like you’re NOT PERFECT YET!
– INVEST IN YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU’RE DESTINED FOR GREATNESS AND YOU CAN’T DO IT ALONE!!!!
Your ego is just doing its job by reminding you how imperfect you are…
…how you don’t really deserve ALL of your dreams (or at least not for a few years or decades)…
…how others are already doing it
…how spending money on yourself is SELFISH
…when clients say they “can’t afford you” that you should lower your prices
…that you’re not making an impact so you should quit and get a real job
^^^^^ ANY OF THESE SOUND FAMILIAR???
Our lesson is WE ARE ENOUGH.
Our lesson is WE DESERVE IT.
Our lesson is WHO ARE WE NOT TO BE GREAT, NOT TO RISE ABOVE THE BULLSHIT, NOT TO SHINE OUR LIGHT, NOT TO WAVE OUR FUCKING FREAK FLAGS!???
I’m saying this for me, for her, for all of us.
This is what MY TRIBE preaches, believes, and lives every single day…are you with me!?
BE THE LIGHT SO THAT OTHERS CAN SHINE THEIR LIGHT.
Light workers BE the light.
Let your light be blinding.
Let your light be bold.
Let your light be crazy.
Let your light be unapologetically BEAUTIFUL and INSPIRING.
Sending you love, yes Mercury is in retrograde, we might be feeling it, but we are ONE and never lose sight of your greatness.
Love,
Emily
P.S. I will be talking more about money and ego on Facebook LIVE at11:30am EST along with some Psychic Biz coaching. Make sure to join!
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