In our 6th episode of the Aligned & Unstoppable podcast, Emily talks with self-made millionaire and author Denise Duffield-Thomas. Denise shares why so many women and lightworkers are afraid of success. Emily & Denise discuss topics such as their favorite ways to bring outsourcing home, the most common money blocks and how to fix them and the benefits of “tapping”.
Episode Highlights:
- Emily just read Denise’s new book, Chillpreneur, and the basis is that many women have a fear of success and creating wealth
- One of the most exciting things for women has been the growth of technology which has allowed them to work from home and connect with other women
- Many women still have a primitive fear that something bad is going to happen
- Denise specifically helps those struggling with common money blocks:
- 1) Feeling that you have to work hard to make money or that because everyone can’t be wealthy then we shouldn’t be either
- 2) Feeling that you can’t make money by helping people
- If you’re a healer that doesn’t charge much money and you’re an over-deliverer then you will experience burnout
- You can always help someone from where you’re at right now
- Denise finds that delegating at home is way more useful to her than delegating at work
- Denise has outsourced some of her “mommy” duties to a team of cleaners, a nanny and a housekeeper and still spends plenty of time with her children
- She likes that her kids see her and her husband playing the role of different gender norms
- Putting a value on housework and providing an environment where your people are well-paid and have a flexible environment is important
- Women business owners should never feel guilty for providing a job for another woman
- Make sure you’re sharing your dreams with people that have the capacity to appreciate them
- Because of the advancements in technology & culture, women no longer need permission from men to pursue their entrepreneurial dreams
- When dealing with the “tall poppy syndrome”, there’s something freeing about being unapologetically you
- When starting her early businesses, Denise was just trying to make money and not focused on a business that was aligned with who she was
- Every time Denise moves into a new area of her business she faces feelings of starting from scratch with her money blocks
- Tapping is a fast way to shift your energy, clear off negative baggage and pull in higher vibrations/frequencies of unconditional love
3 Key Points:
- Charge appropriately for what you do, so you can buy back some energy and create more tools and resources to help people
- As your success continues, you will have to face new levels of the same issues even though you’ve already experienced healing in them
- When you love yourself you allow yourself to receive good things: money, compliments, support, etc.
Tweetable Quotes:
- “I serve, I deserve” – Denise Duffield-Thomas
- “No amount of certifications will ever make you feel like you’re enough” – Denise Duffield-Thomas
- “Nothing added to me will make me any greater, nothing taken away would make me any less” – Emily Aarons
- “You can be content where you are & still have the desire for more” – Denise Duffield-Thomas
- “Get your validation from appropriate sources” – Denise Duffield-Thomas
- “There’s never a place where we don’t deserve to receive more” – Emily Aarons
Resources Mentioned:
- Website
- Denise Duffield-Thomas on Facebook
- Instagram @denisedt
- Denise Duffield-Thomas on YouTube
- Twitter @denisedt
- Book – Chillpreneur
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