Actionable Steps to Heal the “I Can’t Afford It” Mindset (Part 2)

If you had all the money in the world, “What would you like to invest in?”

This question is part of a 2-part series. (If you haven’t heard part 1, it’s the foundation for this conversation and you can find it here).

We’ve been exploring the “I can’t afford it mindset”. Why we say it, where it comes from, and how to say something more empowering (even if you’re staring at an empty bank account?).

Now it’s time to take it even deeper. Really get in there and create the shifts to help you change this.

It can actually be easy to attract money and get what you want… BUT it requires letting go of certain beliefs. That’s the hard part.

In this episode, we’re diving deep to explore money as a relationship and pinpoint the meaning we’ve assigned to it.

Because money ?, money ?, money ? is a good thing!

Highlights you won’t want to miss:
  • “You’re not spiritual if you’re charging for this”… Is it true?
  • What to do if money is literally not in your bank account.
  • How to take back your power through choice.
  • How to LOVE money.
  • If Dad guilt isn’t real then Mom guilt isn’t either.
  • Don’t take advice from someone who hasn’t done what you’re doing.
  • Consider that you are the co-creator of your life and go make it happen!

Action Steps to Align Your Biz:

    1. Journal prompt: Instead of writing “I want”, try “I’m so fortunate now that I have______ {fill in the thing you want}”. Write it in the present tense, because if it’s in the present tense, then it changes your outlook and it shifts to your reality.
    2. When you stop saying “I can’t afford it” begin to think about what you want to afford. Think about it and write it down. Then think of actions you can take to get it. What can you do to make it happen?

Take a screenshot and tag me in your IG stories with your “Heck yes!” moments or your action steps @emilyaarons. I love to see them!


About Emily

Emily Aarons is a business alignment coach who helps entrepreneurs use their intuition to grow their business.

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