The purpose of this blog is to simply point out how when you’re in ALIGNMENT with your life’s purpose and passions, the judgment of others doesn’t even matter.
It’s MY purpose is to shine my light so that others can shine theirs too. Simply put: I help you so you can help others!
In order to help others, I have to be massively VISIBLE.
Being massively visible means I attract some occasional unwanted attention!
TRIGGER WARNING: I invite YOU to consider your own fears of visibility, being judged for who you are, fears of being an imposter, or being the “weirdo” in the room…
A PERSONAL TRUE STORY: Just last week, a troll on the internet went out of their way to rip me a new one. Here’s what happened and how I handled it…and how YOU can face your fears of judgment too!
Here’s some of what they said:
“You’re not psychic”
“You’re full of shit”
“You give horrible advice”
“What you is unethical”
“All you care about are followers”
“You should quit your job to be at home with your children”
“Your work is bullshit”
“You only care about putting yourself first”
So, maybe you’re wondering why on earth would someone say such things?…
Truth be told…If this conversation happened when I was newly visible online and still a bit insecure in my work, these would have BROKEN ME into a puddle, I would have strongly considered quitting, I would have definitely lost sleep over it…
HOWEVER, when I heard those words last week I felt…N O T H I N G.
In the conversation, I didn’t get defensive.
I didn’t react.
I didn’t get angry.
I didn’t throw insults back…
I listened and occasionally said “that’s really interesting feedback, tell me more about that” or “well this certainly says a lot about you”…
(Feel free to borrow those if you need to!)
But here’s WHY I felt nothing…
It’s because NONE of those words are true AND I’ve healed those old wounds of needing to be liked by everyone!
The TRUTH is that the work I do is helping thousands of people and there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t see that karma return in POSITIVE ways.
It’s kind of like someone making fun of me for being too tall…I’m 5’2″ so that’s just silly nonsense…same reaction with this.
So here’s the part I didn’t tell you…
That “troll on the internet” who said all of those things was actually a close family member. We were simply chatting about plans for Thanksgiving when he unloaded…
What I said to him was that while I appreciate his honest feedback that he clearly had been holding back for years.
I’m in a place in my life where I have zero tolerance for people in my life who don’t love, honor and appreciate me for ME.
I realize to some people reading this you may have a judgment about me or him, but consider this…
The reason why HE said all of those things means nothing about me and EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM.
Did he say it to hurt me? No.
But as we know, hurt people hurt people…he’s clearly hurting in some way, and that’s HIS work to do.
I forgive him and release him from my life right now. Maybe one day that will change but for now, I’m not available.
And for all you scrollers…the moral of my story is…
When you align yourself to your true calling and life purpose, and stay TRUE to your divine alignment, IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE THINKS!!
And always remember what Michelle Obama said: “When they go low, we go high.”
If you’re getting the side-eye from any friends, family, or co-workers please trust, they are NOT your people.
“True belonging doesn’t require that we change who we are, it requires that we BE who we are.” ~Brene Brown
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I know how important MONEY is in people’s life.
I’d love to help you unlock your intuition and use it as a tool to EXPLODE your business and magnetize your ideal soulmate clients, but let’s take this one step at a time…
Q: How does using intuition grow my business?
A: Just for a moment consider the fact that some of the world’s most successful business owners (Oprah, Elon Musk, Arianna Huffington, and Ray Dalio to name a few) all attribute their success to using meditation and trusting their INTUITION!
ASK YOURSELF: What would be possible if I could 100% trust my inner compass?
Here’s their secret…
Even as little as ONE MINUTE of deep breathing can take a bad day and make it good…Why?
Because it moves your ATTENTION. And we all know we ARE where our attention IS.
Meaning, if you’re feeling overwhelmed by your day, your business (or lack thereof) and you keep spiraling, your day and your energy spirals too.
AND…The more frequently you connect, the easier it becomes to receive messages, PLUS your energy vibration becomes YUMMY!! #yourvibeattractsyourtribe
Q: “My problem is I don’t have enough TIME to meditate”
My best advice that I share with students from Mastery & Ascension is start with ONE MINUTE a day and keep track.
In fact, inside Mastery & Ascension, every member gets a tracker to make tracking easy but if you aren’t a member yet, you can use a notebook or a calendar. They even have some apps to help you track habits as well.
Commit to creating the space to complete a one-minute meditation daily and in time increase your time, keep track of not only your meditations but your successes AND CELEBRATE!
Are you attracting your soul mate clients?
MYTH: “IF I TELL PEOPLE WHO I REALLY AM, THEY’LL JUDGE ME!”
By now, I hope you’re starting to see that not only was I unsure of my own abilities, I was darn right AFRAID to share them publicly because I thought my clients would leave me, friends would judge me, and the “haters” would virtually stone me!
Luckily for me, NONE of that happened.
But, it was so deeply ingrained that I became paralyzed in my work until I had my “spiritual coming out” as an intuitive…
And after I came OUT, that’s actually when my business took off because I knew how to attract my soulmate clients! The reality is people will judge regardless, why not be doing something you LOVE!
If you’re just coming out of your “woo closet” take a good look around you…are you surrounded by women who SEE you and love that woo side of you?
Take it from me, it can be really challenging to spiritually “out” yourself in your life and business, but once you do, you begin to attract more people who GET YOU.
The good news, is you’re already way further ahead than I was by being part of my community!
Imagine what life would be like continuing to HIDE your true self…month after month. Having to hide around people who are supposed to be your friends, but really they know nothing about you. They could be holding you back from truly expressing your authentic self and helping others…
In fewer words, they don’t get you because you’re afraid to show them because of how they’ll judge you.
Just thinking about it makes my heart so sad.
Imagine how that fear impacts your business.
If you’re still hiding your true authentic self, how could you possibly grow your business?
My membership Mastery & Ascension is not only the fastest way to get into your highest alignment and grow your business, but it’s the BEST online COMMUNITY to support you in sharing your gifts!
M&A is my powerful On-Demand-style membership filled with energy-infused meditations. masterclasses, mantras, powerful community, monthly sessions and so much more! We LOVE our community and we’d like to warmly welcome YOU… Join Mastery & Ascension!
Listen to Aligned & Unstoppable Podcast Episode 121: Attracting Soulmate Client with Ease Meditation
I hope we get to see you inside the M&A community!
How far can $50 take you nowadays? Have you ever wondered if you can receive help and inspiration for getting into alignment for $50? The answer is… YOU CAN, and there are so many ways!!!
One thing I’ve learned about myself is that I LOVE to help entrepreneurs with ALIGNMENT…
What IS alignment?
? Financial abundance
? Awesome energy, health, vitality
? Being able to manifest what you want
? More of the “right” customers
? Being able to rest knowing you’re still attracting all the goodies!
You may not know this, but there are tons of ways you and I can work together, and it doesn’t have to break the bank!
Here’s a list of 8 ways you can get into alignment with me for UNDER $50!
1. *NEW* Journey Into Your Akashic Records + Soul Book Workshop ($47)
In this workshop, I break down what the Akashic Records are, how you access them and why you’d want to, plus tons of FAQ’s around discovering your soul’s purpose, life path, karma, and so much more. I’ve also included a separate meditation you can download and practice with as much as you like without having to fast-forward through the class.
2. Mastery & Ascension All-Access Membership ($44/month)
This membership features on-demand, energy-infused meditations to tap into your intuition and grow your business. Along with that is an amazing, supportive, kick-ass entrepreneurial group of women cheering you on and offering feedback for each other!
3. Angels In Your Biz Oracle Card Deck ($27 + S&H)
My energy-infused oracle deck is the easiest and quickest way to get out of overthinking and overwhelm and into your heart and into your highest alignment. These cards always deliver insight and wisdom for you to live your best life!
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4. Aligned & Unstoppable Journal ($24 + S&H)
The companion journal to the AIYB oracle cards! Each day you can pull your cards, write what you’re grateful for, and any other messages that come up, to hold your vibration all day long! It’s made with high-quality paper and it’s easy to pack with you anywhere you go!
5. Mastery & Ascension STARTER Membership ($11/month)
The STARTER membership is a great way to gain access to my special monthly forecast at a fraction of the cost of the All-access membership. You’ll get the channeled energy forecast, PDF workbook, and current monthly meditation by the 5th of every month.
6. Intro To Crystals Workshop (EXCLUSIVE email subscriber special $7!!)
If you’re brand new to crystals, this workshop is for you! I explain how to clear crystals, work with them, gain powerful messages, create a grid, and more! It’s super easy to follow and I make plenty of recommendations to get you started on your path to loving these incredible stones as much as I do.
*Free inside Mastery & Ascension All-Access Membership!
7. Aligned & Unstoppable Podcast (FREE!)
If you’re an entrepreneur and love to learn about business and spirituality or “woo”, this is the place to be! I love creating episodes about abundance, manifestation, business growth, and more. Make sure you subscribe!
8. Intuition Week (FREE!)
Back again by popular demand…Save the date for September 21-25!
I sincerely hope this list is useful to you!
Of course, I love providing cost-effective ways to work together and get you aligned to your BEST life!